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The Hardened Heart of Self Protection

10/10/2025

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Sometimes the hardest part of healing is realizing we can’t fix other people, not even the ones we love most.

You may never get the version of your parent, spouse, or friend you longed for. But Jesus can fill every place they could not. He alone heals the ache of unmet needs.

“And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of His glory in Christ Jesus.”
— Philippians 4:19

When we surrender control, forgive what we cannot change, and allow God to meet our deepest longings, peace begins to take root.
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
— 1 Peter 5:7

You are not powerless.

You are loved, chosen, and secure in Christ, no matter what others do or don’t give you.

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!”
— 1 John 3:1

There is freedom in acceptance. There is healing in surrender.
Let God write a new chapter in your story.

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
— Psalm 34:18
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If you’re ready to begin your healing journey, we’ll walk with you. Visit thebalmofgilead.co or click the link in our bio to connect with a counselor today.
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IT's Not That My Heart Is Closed,, But Trust Takes Longer Now

9/25/2025

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​It’s not that my heart is closed, but trust takes longer now. My soul is weary from the pain of repeated wounds.

Many of us carry scars that make trusting again feel impossible. Broken promises, betrayal, or disappointment leave us cautious and guarded. The heart was created to love and connect, but when it’s been hurt again and again, it learns to protect itself. Maybe you feel like you can’t risk another break.

But here’s the hope: Jesus understands. He knows the sting of rejection, the pain of betrayal by those closest to Him, and the loneliness of carrying wounds that others don’t see. And still, He chose to open His heart fully for us.
His invitation remains:

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

Friend, healing trust doesn’t mean rushing or pretending the pain isn’t real. It means bringing our weary hearts to the One who can restore them. Slowly, gently, God teaches us that His love never fails, never betrays, never abandons.

If you feel too weary to take that step alone, you don’t have to. We’re here to walk with you, pray with you, and help you take the next step toward healing and hope in Christ. DM @thebalmofgilead or visit thebalmofgilead.co. You don’t have to carry this burden by yourself.
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Prayer: Lord, You see every wound and every tear. Teach us to trust again—not because people are perfect, but because You are faithful. Restore our hope and heal our broken places. Amen.
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    Cecilia Trent

    Lover of Jesus - The One who set me free. 

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